An affair with a married woman or a married man

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Sitting Here in Cuba in my hotel room, I can’t help feeling a bit odd because I can’t get my mind off of the affair I had with a married woman only days before my wife and I left for vacation.

Although we have practiced an open relationship for years, for some strange reason, this time my heart was in a different place and this of course breaks our rules when and if you are going to start dating married women or men.

What are our rules you ask?

1.  Never ever let your emotions

get in the way and fall in love with a married woman, a married man.

2.  Your mind should be focused on sex and the pleasures of the act of sex only.  There should be no question about the act whatsoever .

3.  If it happens more than one time with the same partner then the spouse must be consulted immediately and there must be a meeting of the minds between the married couple or husband and wife.

4.  The most important rule of all is the meeting if the minds between my wife and I.  We must be on the same page mentally accepting the extramarital actions in order to maintain peace and understanding in the marriage.  I can sit here under the Cuban sun on the beach listing an endless number of rules but here is the point I am stressing to you…

Whatever you both agree the rules are going to be, you must agree and accept them without reservation and if no,t then you both have much to talk about before you proceed with your open relationship and develop it to the next level of maturity.

A final thought with sexual pleasure outside your marriage is this…whatever you and your spouse decide to practice and engage in, if it is something that improves your relationship by adding whatever it is you both desire to your marriage then go ahead and follow the equation.  I always say that if one plus one equals 2 or more and nobody gets hurt in the process, go for it! 

Good luck in love and if it is Love then make it true love that makes you both sleep at night in peace and harmony and maybe a little bit of excitment. 

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